One of the worst things a man can hear from a woman he likes is ‘Let’s just be friends’ or ’I don’t like you “that” way’. Most guys have experienced this at one point of another, but some experience it every time they get close to a woman. So, in order to understand why this keeps happening, and to help you avoid the “friend zone”, and increase your success with women, here are a few questions you need to ask yourself:

-Are you being too nice or sweet? Whilst you may think that women would love a guy to do whatever they want, they do not however find this behaviour attractive. Fact. When you watch a James Bond film, does he pander and be nice and sweet to get his woman? No!

-Do you bring up matters of dating and relationship in conversation? With her girlfriends, a woman discusses matters of relationships and dating with them, by you bringing these topics of conversation up with her all the time, she will subconsciously put you on the same level as one of her friends. Thus, you fall into the lonely and frustrating ‘friend zone’.

-Are you being too pushy or eager to get into a relationship? Being the first to ask where you stand or declaring your love for her early on; this behaviour is a big turn off for women, it conveys insecurity.

-Are you playing it too cautious? When you first met the lady in question, did you convey your romantic interest in her? Did you flirt? There’s a small window of opportunity when you first meet a woman to do this, NOT through words, through body language.

If you won’t to learn how to avoid becoming ‘just a friend’, I really do super, super recommend David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating. Also check out my previous post on how to attract women to get you started!

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