So you’ve just split up with the love of your life, hopefully you’ve been following the tips provided in my post on surviving the break-up of a relationship. However, if you’re wanting to lay down the foundations to getting her back in your arms again, please read on.

The trick to getting your ex back is accomplished using a complex use of reverse psychology. Your first move should have been to cut contact with her, however, I think it’s safe to say your first move was probably more along the lines of crying a lot and begging for her to take you back! Not to worry, cut off contact now, no more texting, phoning or facebook/myspacing.

Your next step, and brace yourself for this, should be to *gasp* agree with the break up! Whilst this may be very hard, it’s a very effective method of reverse psychology, and creates a vacuum and may have the effect of her pursuing you! Neat stuff eh?! So what exactly is the best way to do this, well read on my friend.

In an age of SMS, IMs and email, what’s going to stand out, and make her feel special again…sending her a HANDWRITTEN letter. That’s right buddy, brush the dust from your best writing implement (that’s a pen by the way :p), grab a sheet of nice paper and tell her you agree with the break-up!

BE CAREFUL what you write though, how you say it can either go incredibly well, or very badly…

To find out exactly how you should construct this letter, and create this powerful emotional vacuum in order to hopefully get your ex back, check out this free to watch video!

Also check out my post on how I got my girlfriend back: it includes even more tips!

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