How to attract women
From all the resources I have read, I have learnt that there are several base characteristics, or traits, in men that attract women; the opposites of which I talked to you about in another post (the ‘wussbag’ characteristics).
When displaying these certain traits, women will instinctively become attracted to you, and I’m not talking about some mild attraction here, I’m talking about real, raw, lasting sexual attraction to you. Combined with the knowledge of all the characteristics that turn women off (found in this blog post here), this will increase your success with women in ways you cannot imagine!
So let’s get to it! What are these traits that women find so irresistible? Read on my curious friend:
No. 1 – Ambition: Women find this unbelievably attractive and sexy! Making your goals and passions known and genuinely striving for them will turn her on big time; for example striving to create your own business and be financially free, or training for a sporting event for charity. Both these display ambition and purpose, and will flick the attraction switch on in women immediately. If you are in a relationship already, DO NOT make your purpose your girlfriend: women do not want a man that lives solely to please them.
No.2 – Leadership: As a man, women will always look to you to be decisive and to have a plan. The next time you are setting up a date, or your girlfriend asks “So, what do you want to do tonight?” in effect she’s asking you to lead her. Have a clear plan, and lead her, and she will follow, beady eyed with attraction!
No.3 – Self-assurance: Believe in the value of yourself, don’t become a doormat for her to walk all over, because once she’s walked all over you, she’ll walk away! A word of caution, you don’t need to be a dick to be self assured. If you share different beliefs and values than your girlfriend, hold onto those values and express them, but do it in a way that won’t cause arguments. If you sense things might get a bit heated, turn the conversation into a jokey tone. For example, if she says she doesn’t like a song you just put on, turn it up louder and start singing along sarcastically at her!
No.4 – Modesty: Be self assured, but when someone does compliment you, do not start bragging; thank them for the compliment and leave it at that.
No. 5 – Confidence: Do not confuse confidence with arrogance. Women will see through arrogance straight away and it will turn them off. Confidence is something that you must genuinely possess, it cannot be faked. There are several ways you can go about increasing your confidence with women, however I have found the best method out there is the hypnodate system; it uses self hypnosis to build your confidence up, and it’s very effective.
That’s all for now. If you wish to learn more, I highly suggest you take a look at Tdub’s ‘Magic of Making Up’. Although it is primarily focussed on getting ex’s back, the information you can learn from it about increasing your success with women is amazing! Definitely recommend this one whether your dating or in a relationship already!
Look out for my next blog very soon.
Click here to check out my post on boosting your confidence.
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