As I touched upon in another blog, from what I have learned, the attraction killer to any woman is the “wussbag” syndrome that guys develop. If you can master the art of keeping this little feller kept quiet then your chances with women/girls will increase dramatically!

So what exactly is the “wussbag” or “wussy”?  Well to keep it short, it is a guy that behaves like a wimp, coming across as needy, weak or submissive. As famous pick up artist David DeAngelo once put it “The opposite of a Wussy is Maximus during his first arena fight scene in the movie Gladiator”. So, well you can get the picture.

Ok, so how exactly does this destroy your success with women, you may be asking? Surely a woman wants a man that will pander to her every need? Wrong! The reason for this, to put it in a nut shell, is because we are all animals (sorry all you creationists!) and as such we are attracted to qualities that are natural and genetic. Just like the rest of the female animal kingdom, women see weakness, whether subconsciously or not, as unattractive, ergo women are never attracted to wussbags.

So what’s the solution, again just like in the animal kingdom the alpha male gets mates with the best females because he is dominant, he is not a push over! Do not kiss up to a woman, be consciously  manipulated by her, buy her things when she wants, pursue her etc. Be a MAN! Now obviously we are a little more evolved than the rest of the animal world, and thus, cannot go around beating the heads in of other rival males. So instead rad on, learn this new found knowledge, and trigger these emotions within her that are going to make her feel attraction towards you.

If you want to be a success with women, throw all the traditional courting crap, that mummy told you, out of the window! If you want to attract women, tease her and play hard to get: let her pursue you. This, regardless of being subconscious or not, is what she wants, and will trigger the emotions within her that will start a real gut-level attraction for you. The awesome thing about this is you don’t not have to be rich or famous, tall or handsome to have this success with women! Try a few of these tips below when you pick up women that I use and I guarantee you will have positive results!

Poke fun at her: obviously not in a malicious way i.e. calling her ugly all the time. E.g. Invent a silly nickname for her.

Be cocky: this behaviour conveys the message that you are high value, and that she should pursue you. Remember, there is a difference between cocky and arrogant.

ALWAYS hold eye contact till she looks away. Again you are the dominant male, so you should act like one!

During the first few dates, refer to her as a friend. E.g. “I can see we’re going to be great friends”, this instills a little insecurity within herself “Why just friends? Doesn’t he find me attractive?” Thus she will respond by pursuing you for your affections.

Pull your shoulders back, walk taller, at the bar lean back rather than forward: this all conveys dominant alpha vibes and will increase the attention you get, it will also increase your confidence with women, as you’ll feel prouder and of higher value.

If you are really serious about increasing your success with women, I really do recommend you look into this guide by Tiffany Taylor, it’s absolutely superb, it covers everything and gives you all the tips, techniques and advice needed to dramtically increase your success with women. Want to pull that hot bar maid? She can tell you exactly how! So go check out her website Guy gets Girl.

Good luck!

You may want to check out my post on what women find unattractive so you can avoid these at all costs.

Don’t forget to check out my other blog posts (located to the right) for more advice and tips!

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