Most men have absolutely no clue about how to attract women. Fact. Pick up experts argue that this is due to certain social aspects, but whatever the reason, you’re lucky enough to be reading this to discover what exactly it REALLY is women find unattractive in men.

Women are programmed to find certain characteristics about men unattractive. Now whether or not you believe in it (pretend for a moment), this is a product of evolution and is prevalent in all animals. Most women themselves are not aware of these characteristics that turn them off.

Whether you’re reading this because you are looking to get that girl you’ve been after, pull back a failing relationship, or to get an ex girlfriend back (like I talked about in my previous post), pay very close attention as I will reveal several of these characteristics that you MUST avoid at all costs!

Number One: Being jealous – Acting jealous is something women find incredibly unattractive. To boil it down to evolutionary terms, it screams “I feel threatened by other men, because I view myself as not good enough for you”. It displays weakness and insecurity, something we must avoid. You personally need to do the opposite; complement her guy friends when you talk to her, give her freedom to go where she wants without pestering her about it.

Number Two: Not holding yourself in high esteem – Women like a proud man. Value yourself as much as you value her. Do not worship her, treat her as an equal. Have your own hobbies and activities that you do separate from her, and she will respect you for it. Put all her needs above your own and she will lose all respect for you, and thus all attraction for you.

Number Three: Constantly seeking approval – Nothing displays insecurity more than constantly seeking the approval, it again displays low self esteem, which women find very unattractive. You have to tell yourself “I am high value, I do not need the approval of anyone!”.

Number Four: Clingy – In my experience this has been the biggest killer of very early relationships. Guy meets girl, gets on well with girl, girl likes boy, boy wants to see girl all the time, girl becomes less and less interested, boy gets ditched and doesn’t know why. Ever heard the expression “Too much of something is bad for you” this applies to humans as well. Back off, take things slow, don’t be in her pocket, let her chase you.

Learning to avoid these characteristics can greatly increase the chance that your relationship will not deteriorate, and your overall success with women.

I hope you have learnt something from this post.

More info can be found here on how to prevent breaking up.

Already split up? Check here to see me blog post on laying the foundations for getting your ex back.

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